When spoiling a child is a must

When spoiling a child is a must
They often say they want to be fair in educating their children, treating them in the same way. In truth, no child is the same, so it is impossible to treat children in an identical way.
If then the older child is disabled, the first years as an only child are inevitably full of vices, because a different condition requires much more attention.
With Matteo, blind, we waited 5 years before thinking of another child. We both wanted more children, but the care of Matteo absorbed us so much... read all
They often say they want to be fair in educating their children, treating them in the same way. In truth, no child is the same, so it is impossible to treat children in an identical way.
If then the older child is disabled, the first years as an only child are inevitably full of vices, because a different condition requires much more attention.
With Matteo, blind, we waited 5 years before thinking of another child. We both wanted more children, but the care of Matteo absorbed us so much that we preferred to wait to avoid problems.
Matteo has been spoiled by everyone, both for the impossibility of leaving him alone, and because since he started walking it was dangerous not to accompany him anywhere. His vivacity and curiosity often push him to touch and want to do things that are risky. QueThey are doubly insidious for the other children, for they are small dangers, for even if only crossing the road is a gamble.
This excess of care has obviously accustomed her to being always the center of attention, both of us parents and of all the relatives in general. For example, often, he breaks in with his hands to touch the people with whom I speak or subjugate guests with questions about how the objects are arranged at home. It is not rudeness, it is the need to answer questions about the world around him, because he is not allowed to see to learn.
Now that a few months ago Luca, his little brother, was born, Matteo feels less attention on our part. In reality we continue to devote much more time to him than to the newborn, but it has developed immediately a strong jealousy towards the last arrived, because he has taken away the position of unicityserious; and total attention.
Eradicating this behavior is not easy, I imagine it would not even be in a normal situation. We try to let Matteo interact and play as much as possible with his brother, hoping that with the passage of time the situation will improve, creating a good relationship.

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