The differences between education of a child and a child

The differences between education of a child and a child
I've always called myself a mother and a feminist worker. As a worker the challenges are daily, now I know them all too well and I have also had many victories.
As a mother, however, the role as well as hard is constantly changing.
For Penelope this meant a childhood with many ideas of strong, enterprising figures and above all I avoided growing up with the fairy tales of the princesses who need a handsome prince to live happily ever after. I never prevented her from playing "male" games,... read all
I've always called myself a mother and a feminist worker. As a worker the challenges are daily, now I know them all too well and I have also had many victories.
As a mother, however, the role as well as hard is constantly changing.
For Penelope this meant a childhood with many ideas of strong, enterprising figures and above all I avoided growing up with the fairy tales of the princesses who need a handsome prince to live happily ever after. I never prevented her from playing "male" games, nor from falling and peeling her knees.
With Giacomo instead, I tried to lay the foundations for a male who in the future could be the companion of a strong woman, as my husband was for me.
And here problems and thoughts arise. Sometimes I realize that when instinct prevails over reasoning, I make more concessions to him than to her: I am more inclined to take care of him and preserve it from everything.
I wondered if this derives from my heritage, having been born in a typical family of southern Italy where often the male children were given concessions instead denied to the females. I have always rejected that system and now, perhaps, the social structure that has been imposed on me when I act on impulse?
I am afraid of growing a male who in the future transforms these little attentions and differences into an inability to maintain equality in the man-woman relationship. I realize that a whole education can not be destroyed by small involuntary gestures, but I fear that my actions will undermine both my work towards Giacomo and my role for Penelope.
What solution did I find? None, if not continue to talk with them about women, mothers, and even men and fathers who support them.

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